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This was a stunning wedding and Chris and Elizabeth were a dream couple to work with! They both came up with lovely ideas for the ceremony and we worked together to make it completely about them as a couple.
The love letters from Chris to Elizabeth were beautiful and moving and formed the very heart of their ceremony.
It was an honour to be their Celebrant and part of their special day.
This afternoon’s wedding is so charming and features a divine Jenny Packham gown. Architect Elizabeth married University of Liverpool Timetable Manager Chris on 8th June 2018, with a registry office civil ceremony at Liverpool town hall, followed by a celebrant ceremony and reception at Spring Cottage Rivington the following day. We’re delighted to discover the couple discovered both their photographer, Kate McCarthy, as well as The White Closet bridal boutique, where the bride discovered her Jenny Packham gown, through Love My Dress.
“We basically combined everything we loved gin / food / nature / colour together but in a considered way in order to have an English country garden party. We’re quite creative and enjoy DIY around the house so we wanted to do it ourselves.”
The couple chose photographer Kate McCarthy to document their day through these beautiful images.
“We came across Kate’s work online and loved her natural style and the colours of her photos. We had an initial skype chat and both instantly knew that she would make us feel at ease on our big day. She was instrumental in keeping the day running on time and sorting out several of the issues we had. We love her, and everyone commented on how great she was at the wedding. We have recommended her to friends since.”
“Chris’s mum, Pam, kindly offered to take on the flowers and considering she has no floristry background did a really professional job. Pam has a passion for flowers with a gorgeous garden herself so I knew whatever she did would be beautiful. We went for artificial flowers in end as we didn’t want to leave it all to the last minute getting flowers from a market and our budget wasn’t stretching to florist costs, plus Pam wanted to be creative herself. Artificial also meant we could use all the flowers on both days without them looking dishevelled.”
“We went to wholesalers and bought flowers for the tables, bouquets, buttonholes and tent hoops. We liked the idea of texture so looked at using thistles, eucalyptus, ferns, berries, succulents as well as spring flowers such as blossom, roses and hydrangea. We were limited to what was available and getting colours which toned in with the pink/purple/grey tones of the bridal party, but we kept an open mind and went with the flow. Pam was good at having the vision and reigning us back, suggesting smaller bouquets and buttonholes which wouldn’t be overwhelming or cumbersome to carry around and she was right. We all have lovely flower arrangements around our houses now!”
“I hired Louise of Louise Hall Hair and Makeup – she was fab. I contacted her really late around April as I had seen her natural make-up style online. We had a trial and got on so well that I asked her to do my make up on the Friday as well in order to eliminate any extra stress. We chatted so much that she put my mind at ease and kept my nerves at bay both days.”
“The White Closet was always a haven of calm that was a pleasure to visit. Eve was incredibly helpful, I couldn’t recommend her enough. I only went to two dress shops, my gut knew I would fall for a Jenny Packham style of dress. I loved how I could immediately see how I would look on the day.”
“We hired the Highhgate String Quartet after a recommendation for the ceremony music and drinks reception. The music was themed on contemporary classics. The bridal party walked down the aisle to Pachelbel’s Canon in D by Bach (featured in many films such as Father of the Bride), we signed the register to Married Life from Up and walked out to Happy by Pharrell Williams (which they sourced the music for and learned in a very short space of time). The quartet’s repertoire was really diverse – they played a lot of well-known themes and popular songs ranging from Game of Thrones to the Beatles and Bruno Mars so we felt it provided entertainment for everyone.”
“We also hired the Loose Moose String Band – we heard them at our friend’s wedding and knew it was the vibe we wanted – they take popular songs and put their own folky twist on it. We have different music tastes from most people and even each other. We dislike cheesy wedding bands and DJs so wanted something a bit different. They did a special rendition of ‘Are you going to be my girl?’ by Jet in their style which is a song that means a lot to us and brought back a lot of memories so was definitely a highlight.”
“I designed all the invites, programmes and menu’s herself being a whizz on photoshop. This saved us a bit of money but was very time consuming as we spent more time over-analysing every detail and word! We included tickets with the program to encourage guests to use all the facilities we had on offer – such as welcome drink, ice cream, drink with the meal, photobooth and evening burrito!”
“Chris and I met at Liverpool University but only got together once we’d finished third year and Chris had moved back to Bolton in late 2008. We then spent 5 and a half years between Liverpool and Bolton before buying a home near Crosby Beach in 2014. Chris proposed in our home on Christmas Day 2016. We had originally wanted to get married in Autumn the previous year had been dry and warm, but we didn’t get our act together quick enough so booked in for the following June so in the end we were engaged 18 months. As it happened Autumn 2017 was a wash out and June 2018 was glorious – everything happens for a reason!”
“Chris’s sister Sarah created all the signs around the venue as a surprise to us including the welcome sign, pick a seat not a side sign, and many more. It was nice to have some surprises on the day for us and not just the guests.
“We specifically wanted a more laid-back natural feel to our wedding. We were struggling to find a venue that fit in the North West and even searched up in the Lake District. In the end we stumbled upon and chose Spring Cottage as it was local to Chris’s family who had offered to help with the decorating, included all that we needed but were also really open so that we could create a wedding that was unique to us. It was also located in a place that Chris and I had spent time as a couple – the Rivington area is beautiful for walks. We couldn’t legally get married there so we looked to do this in Liverpool, Elizabeth’s home town.”
“My dad accompanied me down the aisle – we had a string quartet play Pachelbel’s Canon in D.”
“The venue recommended our celebrant, Annie Richardson, The Rivington Celebrant as she has been a celebrant at many events , being local and a regular to the cafe. She was great, listened to what we wanted and provided us with a unique, bespoke ceremony which all our guests commented on afterwards.”
“As our ceremony was outside there was little we needed to do. Chris’s mum Pam made us a flower arch from her collection of artificial flowers and dried ones from her garden. The final product was a surprise and lovely to see in all its glory at the end of the aisle. This was later moved to the entrance of the tent so had a dual purpose. We had some jars with flowers on the end of the rows and burlap bows.
“Our wedding ceremony was immensely personal to us. It went through our journey together as we realised that probably not all our guests would know it from beginning to end as many had met us along the way. Our vows were a mix of statements that we believed in taken from other vow examples across the internet. We wanted them to be modern and again represent ourselves and make promises that we would want to keep.
“Chris was determined to have three readings in order to tell our story through the ceremony. The first two were letter extracts from a compilation of letters he gave me one year for my birthday. Chris had amended some of the letters to be more personal to us and some he wrote himself. Elizabeth’s two friends from high school read these as requested by Chris. The third was an abridged version of Blessing for a Marriage by James Dillet Freeman read by Chris’s Uncle, Howard, who has been likened to the poet in the past. We picked these readings as they meant something to us and every line represented us and said what we wanted to get across about ourselves and our relationship.”
“We had a table plan in the form of Lavender pots with guests’ names on flags which told them which table they were sat on, but they could pick their own seat. We tried to find a balance between keeping it laid back without sending guests into chaos with no one knowing what was happening. We think we managed it, just.”
“We weren’t going to have wedding favours but then we saw the wedding badges you can get with Macmillan. We ordered a mixture of different coloured hearts, champagne glasses and bow ties so that there was something for everyone and we could hear guests doing swaps all evening!”
“Liz wear’s her heart pin on her coat which is a nice daily reminder of the wedding but also of a good cause. We were glad to put some of the wedding cost towards charity whilst also providing our guests with something to remember the day.”
“Food was a big part of the wedding. We love food so this was an important element to us. We didn’t want a formal sit down 3 course dinner as we knew with nerves we wouldn’t eat or enjoy it. This actually drove the style of the wedding. We quickly realised that we didn’t want the wedding to be too formal and part of a generic package. Spring Cottage were really laid back about catering and you could essentially do whatever you wanted.”
“Instead of canapes – again too formal for us – we had homemade scones made by Chris’s gran, Trudy. This ended up with all of Chris’s family chipping in as a couple of weeks before the wedding Trudy caught shingles! Trudy always makes scones for the family and Elizabeth and Trudy sometimes have baking sessions making them, so they seemed perfect for our English Garden party theme served with clotted cream, jam and fresh strawberries.”
“As it was World Gin day (coincidently) we sourced for free form local bars unusual gin bottles and filled them with flowers and lights on each table, along with gold sprayed geometric shapes decorated with flowers and greenery and bark candle holders. We used wallpaper to line the table which covered the join as we pushed two tables together to create a square. We were originally going to have long rows but the large sharing boards leant themselves to the square table set up.”
“For the main meal we looked at sourcing food trucks but found that because we were in quite a remote location on a prime summer Saturday with a small wedding a lot were turning us down. We love BBQ food, we once ate in Phil’s BBQ famed from the Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives TV Show in California and still rave about it now. We found Smokin’ Blues online and were really excited about their wedding menu with sharing boards. It was something different, that the guests could interact over. We went to a brewery event in Huddersfield where they were catering to try some of the food menu before we picked ours.”
“We also love ice-cream and there is a locally famous ice cream shop in Egerton that we would always go to. Initially we were going to hire them but then we came across Milkmaids, a really good local company from the wedding fair who make so many flavours of good quality fresh ice-cream from their farm. They included more extras including more flavour choice, wafers, and 45mins of unlimited scoops. We could request any 4 flavours which was so tricky! We had a tasting which did not alleviate the problem but only added more flavours to the list! In the end we decided upon Cream Tea (to go with the Scones), Lemon Drizzle, Turkish Delight (which was the favourite and went in seconds!) and a Strawberry Prosecco sorbet to cover all options. We also went with personalised wafers which read Mr and Mrs Mason.
Fiona at Milkmaids is amazing, she works so hard and we would highly recommend booking them.”
“We both agreed on a song for our first dance, but didn’t want to play the original version as it is a bit heavy with guitars and hard to dance to but the band were nervous to put their spin on the first dance as not every song obviously works in their style.”
“We were stuck for ages and couldn’t agree. We eventually agreed the night before on Sway by Dean Martin as we both felt we could dance to it. Really though, perhaps we shouldn’t have had one but felt compelled to as it is expected by guests and in the end we were both really embarrassed, had technical issues with the iPod and Elizabeth got crippling foot cramp half way through so it wasn’t a great success!”
“Seeing it all come together and being with our nearest and dearest was lovely. We had had opinions during the planning process flying at us from all angles but in the end, everyone finally understood and enjoyed the day which was the biggest relief.”
Words Of Wedded Wisdom
“Make it all about you and it won’t matter if it goes out of fashion. We chose a lot of our suppliers and decorations because we liked them and they represented memories or things that we love. When we look back in years to come this is what we will remember. It was a good way to reign ourselves in so as well as asking ourselves do we really need it we also asked does it represent us? Would someone say that’s so Chris and Liz if we had it?”
“That was also the feedback we got, a lot of our guests said how personal it felt and how they could see us in every aspect – so we got it right! It’s hard to have a wedding that’s different and stands out from everyone else’s but if you truly represent yourselves you will do that as you are different to everyone else and it will differ from the standard generic package.”
“Budget wise, we originally gasped at the thought of spending any more than £8,000 on one day. Then we started getting prices back for things and had to readjust our mindset and thought we’d be doing well if we could do it for £12,000. We spent a lot of time weighing up whether we should just have a small and really intimate almost elopement and save the money or have a wedding day. In the end we seemed to have both, which didn’t help with costs but worked well for us. It wouldn’t have felt special enough having just the Friday ceremony but instead felt extra special having both.”
“On reflection we would have given the bridal party specific jobs. We wanted everyone to enjoy the day and relax but didn’t think enough about how guests would know about timings. Despite there being a programme we relied a lot on Kate and we ourselves spent time on the day organising people, guests and music which added a bit of stress.”